Friday, May 31, 2013

Cold Sweats and Midnight Misunderstandings

It was the night before going to the Philippines and what should a appear,
A fear of immigration sending me back to Korea-r (sue me! I wanted it to rhyme).

Seriously though, I had a miniature panic attack because I thought that a technicality would keep me from entering the Philippines.

A little clarification, for the past two months, I have believed that I could enter the country for 21 days and then apply for a visa extension for 38 days once I am in the country. 

Go figure, the night before I fly to the Philippines, I get nervous that I should have applied for the VISA before leaving. I begin to think that the airline won't let me board the plane because my return ticket is for 56 days later, or worse, they will, but I won't be allowed in the country.

Additionally, I realize that I don't have Soraya's (the women with whom I am working with this summer) phone number, and if something does go wrong, I would not be able to contact her. So, I send her a flurry of emails and Skype messages at 1 in the morning. Surprisingly, she doesn't respond.

2:35am KST: Well, sleep is hopeless.

4:00am KST: I head out to the airport bus 45 minutes early.

4:15am KST: I start worrying that the bus won't stop at this station because my friend told me that once she waited here for an hour and the bus never came.

4:40am KST: The bus arrives 5 minutes before it is supposed to leave the first station (~10 minutes early). Being high strung pays off this time.

Let's skip ahead. I have no problems boarding the plane, or with immigration at the airport. And the biggest barrier to getting the visa extension is that I am wearing shorts and sandals, and there is a dress code at the bureau of immigration. Luckily, the dress code at government buildings in the Philippines is more flexible than those at bars in Boston.

Time to rest easy.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Two Days in Korea

It is an odd feeling visiting a place for just a couple days after you have lived there for a few years. It feels like I am floating. I know the patterns of daily life, but am not engaging in them. I sense the societal norms, yet have no pressure to conform to them.

I am not a tourist because I know my way around, but I have forgotten important details. Which bus do I take to get to Gangnam? Whatever, I'll just take the subway. I am in no rush. Often times the comfort of doing what is known is worth sacrificing efficiency. Oh...Huh, there is a subway line that runs directly from Jeongja to Gangnam? That's new.

As you can tell from the haphazard collection of ideas, I am having difficulty expressing myself. Maybe it is the jetlag. Maybe it is the transience of my stay. But I think it is that Korea has never felt like home.